As a woman, I can definitely speak to the fact that many women enjoy a good orgasm, but a better orgasm can create a mind-blowing, body-shaking, toe curling moment. The fact is every woman is acutely aware of every flaw on her body and as her partner, it is your duty to boost her self-confidence or the ideas I'm about to detail will fizzle instead of sizzle.
Oral sex or tongue action is a great way to a better orgasm for women since the clitoris is the nerve center of her vagina. Next to intercourse, oral sex is just as erotic and rewarding and often leads to a better orgasm.
Even better, setting the right atmosphere will do wonders in leaving her weak with anticipation. Seduce her with words before she leaves for work – send her off on an orgasmic high. Tell her in graphic details how your tongue will begin a long, slow, wet path up her thighs to her vagina.
Then drop to your knees, slowly kissing the inside of one thigh – giving her a sample of what's to come. If she does not have a mini-orgasm then and there do not worry because you've left her with a lasting impression to keep her body humming all-day-long.
What a delicious way to set the tone for a better orgasm. As she spends her day in breathless anticipation here are a few secrets ideas to continue building the sexual tension.
First, set a warm bubble bath filled with rose-petals and place decorated candles appropriately for mood lighting. Next, give her hot-smoldering looks as you run your hands over her body – make her feel sexy. And, the last tip to set the stage for a better orgasm is to feed her sweet tasting fruits such as chocolate covered strawberries … then suck the juices from her fingers one-by-one.
All of this foreplay will have her body wound tighter than a guitar string. Now you can begin strumming her body leading her towards a better orgasm. The cues that she is extremely turned on are usually erect nipples begging to be sucked, or rapid breathing indicating the orgasmic tension gripping her body.
Do not deny her any longer she's waited long enough for a better orgasm. Reach down between her legs and cares her vagina, stay clear of her clitoris since the slightest touch will send her over-the-edge. Slide her legs over your shoulders and set your body between her thighs. Fulfill your earlier promise by nibbling the insides of her thighs leaving a wet path as you head towards your goal. Hold onto her hips as your tongue reaches the prize – her clitoris. Be prepared for an instantaneous surging of her body as she is consumed by a hot, powerful orgasm.
As the clitoris can be extremely sensitive after a good … no, make that a better orgasm – stop the stimulation as her orgasm slows. Pull her body against yours' in a spooning position. As she settles into a delicious orgasmic haze, slowly cares her to create a sense of security and well-being. There you have it, a great technique for giving her an even better orgasm. And, remember … anything worth doing right often takes a lot of practice. So put your best effort – or should I say tongue action – into it!
Copyright 2005 – EJ Davis